With today’s empowered women, there is almost nothing that men could do that women cannot. Women started to go up the corporate ladder as high as men can do, become respected leaders in today’s society and really succeed in making a lot of difference and whatever fields where women used not dare to think about half a century ago. But women are not competing with men in terms of work or in any profession; they also compete with men’s naughtiness in dating while married. Statistic shows that women are now a very close second to men when it comes to having affairs while married. Women these days cannot say they are bored being left alone or that the lack of anything to do led them to extramarital affairs more because if you come to look at it, women now are as busy as men, if not more so. So what are the reasons why modern women consider dating while married?
Women have now more opportunity to be with men not their spouse at work
Women today also have a career to tend to aside from taking care of the home and kids. This should be reason enough NOT to go to an affair given the busy schedule and all. But women today have more opportunity to meet dynamic men. Women go out more and are allowed to achieve more these days. It is no longer seen as taboo for women to meet with men for business dinner date or to spend the weekend with other men for work-related convention. With these opportunities, women can also come up with time to play around – especially now when getting pregnant has been accidentally cut into a minimum given the availability and wide choice range of contraceptives. So, now that the FEAR of getting pregnant has decreased significantly, if not eliminated entirely, women can now play too – and they do have a lot of time to do it too.
It is now all about conquest too than just being unhappy and bored at home
Doing something that is forbidden can be exciting and this applies to both sexes. If men like the idea of screwing other women and get away with it without being caught with their wives, there are wives who like this too. More women now joined the game of conquering men. And if you come to think with it, women can marriage date more successfully than men because the men are more than willing participant in this illicit affair. Women can take their pick, especially if they are still beautiful, and get as many men to date with as they want.
Women would consider marriage dating the most if they are very unhappy
But beyond the opportunity and the thought of adventure is the fact that women consider having an extramarital affair because they are unhappy. Most women don’t get unhappy with their marriage easily as it is their second nature to patch things up. Besides, women tend to think they can change their men and will do everything in their power to have their men realize how much they need to be appreciated. But when they go unappreciated for a long time, women will be overridden with unhappiness. This is when thinking about being consoled with other men will come into mind. And unlike before where opportunity to find men who will want to have an affair with a wife of some other men is not that many, women today are exposed to men who are quite game to start an affair.
So what does this mean?
This means that husbands shouldn’t take their wives for granted. They should put in more effort to spend more time with their wives. Wives today are more independent. They can earn, they know how to take care of the kids and the household and they can find other men if they want to. Men should realize that their wives can do what they can and if you are having extra marital affair, their wives can do it too. And if a husband doesn’t want to be cuckolded and seen as a vital then he should start thinking differently.
What can husbands offer today where their wives cannot do by themselves? Yes, it is emotional support, quality time and attention. Husbands should stop seeing their wives as just a homemaker. Women these days are also providing half the household’s financial needs, if not most of it. So it should go that husbands should put it more effort on the household chores and of taking care of the kids. Women today can zone out too due to work concerns and men should be more sensitive about this. Gone are the days where husbands come home and expect home cook dinner for them. Today, if a husband wants this set up, then he should earn a great deal more. And he should be worth the time for the wife to do so because if he is lousy in many ways, a wife can always go out and find work to spend her time better.