Money attracts all the good stuff this world can offer, especially the cream of the crop among women. That is just nature and no man can do anything about it except enjoy the pleasure. So obviously, you can say that wealthy men even when you are legally taken well and can date more than most men because they can afford it and women just flock to them. You just can’t refuse what is amply offered, can you? Now, why temptations are all around rich men? Why can they refuse? What can their wives do about it?
Money makes men attractive
There is no doubt about it. The most attractive thing about a man with money is he can afford to provide women the comfort of the world. Rich men being married wouldn’t stop them from giving gifts to women who provide them pleasure. In fact, sinfully rich men love to give gifts to women and women know that is why they are drawn to wealthy men like a moth to a candle. They can’t help it if the comfort of money is just too much to refuse. Human flesh often follows a basic instinct of serving its pleasure. Whatever feels good must be right. Those who are pious and strictly follow the norms of what is moral often are middle class and just can’t afford to play around. So it is easier for them to keep temptation at bay. Rich men, however, just can’t have enough around them. Even without putting so much effort, or at times if they truly love their wives, might even do their best not to date on the side, they will still be followed and tempted by lots of beautiful women. It is really, really hard to resist. They might be successful at some time but it can never be said that rich men have not stumbled and date someone else while married in their life time.
When wants meet, there is no stopping it
The thing is, married wealthy men often bask on their earthy possessions. If they have been born with wealth, it would also be their second nature to buy what they want as needs can easily be acquired. And as a man, they would want women. And for a rich man, there are beautiful women aplenty around ready to provide anything he wants. He will also have a wide range of choices for brunettes, blondes or redheads. And these women would want him because he can really spend and buy whatever they want. So you can say rich men date more not only because they can afford it but more because there are lots of offerings who would want him.
What can a wealthy man’s wife do?
No, a wife is helpless about it. They might be one of those “providers” not so long time ago too. They didn’t marry the wealthy man with closed eyes. And even if she came from a good and conservative family, she might have it at the back of her mind that when she married her husband, girls will flock him because of the money and he would probably date while they are married. The only thing that she can do is to demand the following from him:
1. Convey her boundaries explicitly to her husband. He must understand what she can tolerate. If he has to date, he should, at all cost, keep the dating away from her.
2. Give her the respect due to a wife. He should not flaunt his mistresses.
3. Lavish her with gifts to keep her occupied while he plays.
Types of rich men who date on the side
Although wealthy men can afford a great deal in this life, what they find it hard to impart with is their wealth. Once married, it is not that easy for them to decide to just divorce the wife unless they don’t really like their wives in the first place and the mistress is really great. There are rich men who did not start it rich at the beginning of a marriage. You might think this kind of wealthy man will stick with their wives. The thing is that, this might probably the rich men who will divorce their wives once they start to enjoy the dating game. However, there are rich men too who really married their wives because they really believe they love their wives. And while they will do their best not to date other women, they might fall short some time. Of course, as much as possible, these nice rich men will keep their wives. Ironically, these are also the type of rich men women will eye on, even the “nice” ones.
So, it is not really easy for a rich man to date. Sometimes, it is hard for him to believe that it is him, not his pocket that a woman would fall for. But they would really date for the two reasons, Firstly – women would flock them, some they really can’t refuse and Secondly, because they can afford to date every single day.