Cheating is never an easy act to pull; an exciting one though. With all adrenaline rush you feel about committing such a dangerous act in your marriage can be an encouragement to some. And no amount of discouragement could pull you out this rush especially when all the ingredients to infidelity is there: unhappiness, cheating partner, time and finance. For some, a cheating partner is enough reason to cheat. And if you are in this kind of adventure, your only concern, really, is how to keep it a secret. And these days, hiding an affair is not that hard to do, you just have to keep the following in mind.
How to manage your cheating activities?
If you are into married dating, you have to understand these three important factors to make it work your way: Communication, Finance and Time. You have to perfect these three factors with your cheating partner so that you won’t leave a trail or a scent behind to be followed on.
Lunch is the best time to communicate
When cheating on today’s digital age, you do it just like the classic. At the time where mobile phones are not available, people use the telephones to talk. But it might be odd to use the telephone at home or there might be company policy not to use the phone during office hours. So the best way to communicate with your cheating partner is during lunch time using the company or paid telephone.
As a rule, you don’t use your personal PC or mobile phone to text or talk to your lover as it leaves clear trace in case you forgot to delete it. Besides, deleting your call history or messaging history and making your phone super clean may look a little odd. And this can also be a sign that you are cheating. So better be safe by using paid lines during lunch or break time.
Always, your communication should be precise and brief. Your lunch talk should be about where to meet and when. No jotting on a piece of paper so you have to keep information brief between the two of you, something you can remember easily.
Cash is the best way to finance it
Don’t pay anything, dinner food, gifts or hotel room, using your credit card. If you need to keep cash with you and do some extra job to do just that, then you need to do it. The thing is that, you have to keep your wife know where the cash go and if you get a chunk of your payday cash or unexplained purchases in your credit reports, your wife is going to ask. So while you know you need cash to spend for everything you do with your lover, you have to think about where the cash is coming from. So, if you have some bonus or extra bucks that are unaccounted for at home don’t tell your spouse about it and use it to spend for your date.
Think of it as an organized crime
Time everything perfectly. Of course, this can only come with a plan and the best procedure. When you meet up, have it in a place where both of you are not known – out of town, secluded and quiet. You will need to do it in middays as weekends are supposed to be spent with the family unless you have a valid reason to go away. And no, don’t say you have work related out of town things to do. Your spouse can always ask where you work if this is true and if you are doing it often.
Don’t create a pattern of your activity though. Being late coming home at night all the time will make your spouse suspicious. If you can, time your dating activity with your spouse work schedule. If you know your spouse is off the weekend to work, you grab this opportunity to meet up with your lover as well. What is important is that you keep a track of the time, meeting your lover that will make it as though you have not been anywhere at all as far as your spouse is concerned, you are just home or at work.
Why it is easier to cheat your spouse these days?
The thing is that, cheating is easier these days; although it does not mean it is less complicated. Wives and husbands go to work every day. This means that both sides can have excuses to go out for “work-related” emergencies. Both partners can be very busy and so focused at work that if one party decides to date other people, the other might not notice it at all. Society does not ostracize a cheater so much these days. If you cheat, that is your life and it’s your problem. It is not really a wonder why infidelity is in such a rise.
And if you want to join the bandwagon, you just need to see to it you have the time, the cash and the effort to set everything to keep your spouse off your trail.