There are many guys that are really good about chatting with women online. But when it comes to ask her out, they don’t do it. The reason? They’re not confident or they aren’t picking up on her obvious signs of interest. The thing with women is they get bored easily. They could be incredibly interested in a man one minute and not interested in him at all the next. That’s just how they are. It’s your job to make sure she doesn’t lose interest.
How do you keep her interested? Great conversation is obviously important. But equally important is to know when to ask her out and not make her wait long for you to man-up and ask her out on a date . Here’s the thing – women will assume a guy isn’t interested in them if he doesn’t TELL her he is. The best way to prove you’re interested in a woman is to ask her out on a date. You can tell her she’s hot and sexy all you want but she won’t truly know you want to get with her until you ask her out. What happens if you chat with her for a while but don’t actually ask her out? She assumes you’re not interested and starts ignoring you.
She’s Interested and Here is How You Can Tell
Many online conversations between a man and a woman last a while without any substance to them. There are 2 potential reasons for that. First off, there’s a chance she’s also talking to other men so she doesn’t have time to give long responses. Another potential reason is because you’re not doing a good enough job convincing her you’re an interesting guy but she isn’t cruel enough to tell you to piss off or ignore you.
If a woman really is interested in a man, 99% of her responses won’t be “lol”, “yes”, or “no”. There will be some substance. And not only that, she’ll ask you some questions. That right there is one of the biggest signs that she’s interested in you. If she’s asking you questions, she’s curious to learn more about who you are and what you’re looking for.
Women do not flirt with men they have no interest in. And here’s the thing – if you don’t catch her attention right away, chances are you will never change that. It’s just how women are. If you aren’t appealing to her instantly, you probably never will be. Back to flirting. Women love to flirt. Even shy women flirt subtly. Look for signs of flirting such as teasing you (not making fun of you!). This is a clear indication she’s interested in you.