Wives have a gut feeling and in most cases, this is correct. If you want to cheat, there is a big chance that you will get caught. Your wife’s radar, sooner or later, will find out about it.
Beware! Your wife is suspecting you have an extramarital affair
Gone are the days that a husband comes home with a lingering feminine perfume on their shirt. Men know about that, women too. Here are different signs to tell that your wife is suspecting on you rather that catching her sniffing you smart shirt:
When she looks at you questioningly every time you come out of the bathroom with cell phone in your hand. Who would not? She saw the sign that you are making private or secretive calls in the bath. Unless your cell phone has a soap compartment, you can’t pretend that you are using it for washing.
When she often reviews your text history. She knows that something is going on. She is just looking for hard proof. Beware of cellular phone which saves history in the hard files. You might forget to delete your texts to your mistress. Open every folder in every app on your phone.
She filters your set of friends. You have close friends whom she is familiar with. Then, suddenly she asks you not to go out with this particular friend because he is a bad influence. She suspects that this friend is only your alibi to go to your mistress.
She asks “Why are you giving me gifts when there is no occasion?” Being overly sweet makes her suspicious that you are making up for your hidden sins.
She changed her way of speaking to you. Her sentences are more accusing than caring about your day’s work. This is because she knows that you are messing up with her.
She is always not in the mood to have cozy moments with you. Finding out that you have a mistress makes her see you in a different way. Your wife knows that mistresses are sexual objects. No wonder why every time you run your fingers on her skin, she becomes pissed off with you.
You wanted your wife back, what will you do?
There you have it, an angry wife that always nags you about your uncovered infidelity. If you still love her, you have to do these things
Stop you extramarital relationship. Be honest with her. She can feel it if you are still cheating or not.
Be humble to her. Say sorry and that you will try everything to make things right. Your wife also wanted to regain her trust on you. Give her time. It is not a quick process. After all that you caused her, she may not be able to forgive you soon enough. It is a consequence you have to suffer. Bear with her. In due time, her heart will feel your love again, even if it is tarnished.
Relive your dating days. Take her to where you used to go. Remember, you are winning her back. Give a lot of effort.
You do not want to be tempted to extramarital affairs again
You want to be a good boy. That’s good! But, if you are inclined to having an extramarital affair, these are the things you have to keep in mind:
Having a mistress only sucks your life. This is an old wives tale but, there are lots of evidence that this is true. Maintaining “other women” drowns your livelihood. It sends your business to the drain. If you know Karma, all the wrongs you did will get back to you or to your children. If you truly care for your kids, stop messing around.
Focus on something productive. Study to make your value increase. Go for the promotion because you know that you are equipped with knowledge not with the bed.
Send your kids to exclusive schools. This will give you something to worry about instead of womanizing. Spend your cash on their education. Later in life, they will thank you for that and will make you proud of their achievements.
Ask your wife to revamp herself. You know that you, men in general, are visual animals. You are attracted to what you see. This is rude , but your wife will appreciate that you care about the way she looks. Tell her in a nice way, though.
The next time you are caught in the hot seat, get rid of your affair and be faithful to your wife unless you want to wreck your family.