Wife coming to a private investigator’s office to check on their husbands is a common thing. There are even private investigation agencies that specialize in this project- catching husbands cheating on their wives, When a wife wanted a divorce because she is feeling that she is being cheated- and you are guilty of it, yet she cannot establish the fact, you better be careful and wary about your surroundings.
How to tell if your wife is doing something with the private investigation
This is a bit creepy. If your wife is hiring a private investigator and you are under surveillance, your moves are very limited. But, how do you prove that your wife is making arrangements with the private investigation agency? Here’s how:
Making cryptic calls during “alone moments”. This can be either she is talking to the investigator for the latest development or she is having an affair of her own. Either way, this means that your marriage is in danger. You have to act on it.
She asks you questions about your day and point out incidents that you think she is not seeing you. How else will she know? Maybe through a co-worker, a friend or a private investigator. Be careful to make the wrong moves. This time, you can tell your fling to cool down things first because your wife is really serious about hunting you and your affair.
She becomes sarcastically sweet. This is different from tenderly-sweet. You the feeling when she comes to you acting like a gooey-eyed ‘Sweetums’ yet, inject some information she knows about your day along the steamy conversation. Take note of these situations. She is watching you.
She goes away from home telling you that she is going shopping with friends and yet her friends are in their own pads. This means that she is seeing somebody whom she don’t want you to know about.
She scans through your things and after she gives you back your wallet, you notice that some of the calling cards are missing. She might be giving this to the investigator for further scrutiny.
How can you tell that you are followed by an investigator?
“Look for the signs or any suspicious people around you”
Is Sherlock Holmes on your back? Here are some indicators to tell is he is really watching you:
If you see a person in the parking lot looking directly at you for quite some time and he is there almost every day, then he is tracking you.
When you see two people in a parked car across your house, drinking coffee and reading newspaper, you are being watched.
When you are told by a friend or a co-worker that somebody is conducting a background check on you. Unless you are applying for a new bank account, a credit card or a new job, no one can have a reason to check you, unless your wife is behind this.
When your fling has told you something like a man knocked on her door asking about you. That is the biggest conclusion.
What to do when you are being followed?
After you have proven that you are being followed through your wife’s wish, you can act on this matter. There are always two things on how to handle this.
The first one is to hide. Increase your cover up. Tell your fling that things as on the brink so, you have to mellow a little. Get to her after you have proven to your wife that you are a clean man.
Second, show them that you know they are there. Private investigators are covert people. They do not want to let you know that you identified them. Talk to them. Tell them that you know whom they are working for and that you have no flings as what your wife is trying to prove. This will shoo them away.
Talk to your wife about this. Either she admits or not, the fact that she knows that you know that you are being followed may make her back out of the idea. Tell her that you are furious about what she is doing. Stress that you are not having an affair. You can always say this to her face until you get caught. The downside is, her trust in you is beyond repair. If you want to tell a lie, be sure you will take it to your grave