Lies may be intentional or unintentional statements which is not the true or did not happen. This is a misleading accusation or story which is fabricated to hide something from another person. It can break a lifetime of trust and can wound many hearts.
Why married people lie to each other?
Individuals have different standards of truth and lies. Why do people lie to each other? It is because they want to hide something that can hurt the other’s feelings. Hurting other people, especially those who are so close to your heart can hurt you all the more. They have this so called white lies. It conceals those things which you want to know but will hurt you. There are several reasons why people lie. These are some of it:
To mislead others. When you found gold in a cave, will tell your comrades where to find it? Greed is the most reason for lies. It crashes down the bond that holds people together.
To hide the truth. What else? If there are truths that you want to conceal. If you are in an extramarital relationship, you will often lie to your spouse about your daily activities. This is one of the challenges of a covert love affair. Sometimes, this is what makes the relationship exciting.
To keep others from hurting. A lie is always a lie no matter what form it appears to be. Some people hide the truth to spare you from pain. Like, when your kitten dies, they will tell you that it went away. The things that you do not know will not hurt you. This is the motto for white lies. Sometimes, liars tell only half of the truth to make their lies feel authentic.
Women lie to men because they cannot explain every detail to them
Why men lie to their spouses?
Men lie because of several reasons. They may have good intention but the truth is buried under sweet nothings. Why they do this? Here are the reasons why:
- They fear confrontations. After a day’s work and relaxing smoothes from the mistress, they do not have the energy to be confronted by their wives, so they lie. It is a simple escape from a pending civil war.
- They refuse to experience the result of their doings. Punishment comes along with sin. To lie means to sin.
- They fear pain. It is painful to lose a wife, children and a lovely family life. Getting caught in an extramarital relationship is really terrible. So, lie to maintain your recent status.
Who lies the more, husband or wife?
According to Kristin Wong, the author of Who Lies The More? Men Or Women? Women tell at least 2 lies per day. So, when you multiply 365 to two, you get 365 for two, you get 720 lies in a year. In total, 80% of women feel guilty that they lied to their spouses.
Men, in general, tell 3 lies a day. This gives you 1,092 lies a year; this is one of life’s inconveniences.
This data seems to give the winning score to the female opponent but, hold it yet! Although women lie less, they are more prone to lying than men. This is not about extramarital affairs but about shopping, aesthetic services and wellness services. They also lie more during phone calls and busy situations when they want to shut out external noise.
What are the most common lies that each sexes say to each other?
There is a maintained art of telling a lie. If you cannot master this, you will get caught on lying. The first thing to do is to practice your piece over and over in front of the mirror. Be relaxed when you say things and don’t stammer. Stammering is the most obvious gesture in lying. Open your body. This means that you have to put your arms open, not cross on the crest. This invokes sincerity- or as you want to portray it.
Here are some works you have to take note to say that your spouse is lying:
- I’m on my way (and yet, arrive after two hours from the estimated time.)
- I’m okay. When your wife tells you this, something is wrong.
- I don’t know her! When a young mistress-looking girl comes looking for your husband for a weekend.
- I didn’t drink much.
Men are women are capable of lying. Do not lie. A lie is a lie no matter how you say it.