First Date Tactics: Where to Meet Up and What You Should Do
On nearly every first date, it’s up to the guy to decide if you’re going to have sex. That’s right. You choose. She’s going to put out. She made that decision before she agreed to meet you for this first married dating outing. Okay, you don’t technically choose if you’re going to end the night with some hot passionate sex, but it is up to you to make a good impression in order to ensure that is exactly how the evening ends.
She wants to have sex. That’s why she signed up for an affair dating site. And she wants to have sex with you. That is, of course, unless you do something on the date to make her change her mind. But you’re not going to do that. You’re going to knock ‘em dead by following these first date guidelines…
The Best (and Safest) Places to Meet Up on a First Date With a Married Woman
Discretion and respect is a MUST. You’re married and chances are she is as well. Respect that. She isn’t going to agree to meeting you at her house and you’re not going to be comfortable inviting her over. She also won’t want to go somewhere she could end up running into someone she knows. But you still need to find a place that is fun. So here’s where you should take her…
A quiet, intimate lounge not too close to her house or yours…
Meet up in the late evening (somewhere around 8:00). Why this time? Because it’s after dinner (dinner dates are NOT good and can be expensive) but before the busy time hits. Once the bar gets packed, it becomes hard to hear each other talk. When it’s quiet, you can have a nice conversation and get to know each other.
The evening should go smoothly. And it shouldn’t last very long before going to a motel, the backseat of your car, a cornfield, or wherever it is you plan on having sex. There are two reasons you should get in and get out quickly. First off, you both are probably on a time limit since you have a spouse at home (and possibly kids). The other reason is because a woman will lose interest fast if you don’t have the balls to make a move.
How to Get in and Get Out in 45 Minutes Flat
Unless you want to spend $100 for an evening of drinks and probably not even get laid at the end of the night, you should make it a quickie (not the sex). Show up dressed to impress. Make an IMMEDIATE impression by giving her a hug, showing her a big smile and buying her a drink of her choice. Sit down in a comfy booth (with her on the opposite side).
Right off the bat, bring out your charming side and start discussing a topic she will find interesting. I’m not going to tell you what to talk about. Find out what to talk about from her dating profile. What is she most passionate about? That’s the topic you should go with. Don’t know anything about that topic. Do a little research before the date and fake it. Set your watch. After 45 minutes of conversation, be smooth and suggest you take the party back to a hotel or wherever you plan on having sex.