“A dream Man”

Every woman loves a sweet, caring, and romantic man, if she’s looking for a relationship. A woman in search of some sex on the side is looking for many different qualities. She doesn’t care what you do for a living, what your future plans are, or that you just can’t get enough of the show Curb Your Enthusiasm. She cares about these things.

Confidence

“Confidence is the key”

Well, duh! Every woman wants a confident man whether she’s just looking for a hookup or a relationship. Confidence is sexy. It’s the most attractive quality in a man according to more than 75% of women. Even women that have zero confidence want a man that does.

Attractiveness

“You’ve got to look attractive”

Most women look at men differently than how we look at women. When we check out the ladies, we’re drawn in by their eyes, curves, and back, right? It’s not that women don’t find a man with a chiseled body and baby blue eyes attractive. But they aren’t fixated on looks in that way like men are. They want a man that is attractive to them in some way. It could be your style (most common), your hair, your eyes, your muscles, etc.

Maturity

“Women want a mature man”

Mature men are in high demand on married dating sites. Why? Because they are very few in numbers. These sites are flooded with perverts that think they can get laid by using filthy language and sending pictures of their cock to random women. It doesn’t work that way.

Availability

I know you’re married and probably have kids. Your life is already busy. So is hers. Make time for her. Find a way. Get creative. Think of excuses to get out of the house at random times so you can get together with your other girl. I lead a busy lifestyle but I still find time for my woman on the side. If you can’t find time for her, she won’t find time for you.

Positive Attitude

Your wife treats you like crap and never puts out. Okay, so what? Her husband treats her like garbage but she deals with it. Married women that look for a man on the side want someone that is pleasant to be around. They’re tired of being treated like dirt at home and tired of having to deal with a whiny ass husband. They want someone that is the exact opposite. You’re her escape from reality.