Perhaps you’ve seen their ads on TV and radio. Or maybe you heard they purchased a Super Bowl ad before the FCC cracked down on it. AshleyMadison.com – for good or bad – is one of the most polarizing online dating sites. When people think of relationship based dating sites, they think of Match.com or eHarmony.com. AshleyMadison.com is the eHarmony of married dating sites. It’s not the best – in our opinion – but it is the most recognized.
This was the first affair site we tested out because we were already familiar with it, though we had never tried it out. Like we said, when you think of affair dating sites, you think of AshleyMadison.com. Because of the popularity of AshleyMadison.com, we pretty much assumed the experience would be fantastic. If everyone is using it, it must be good, right? As we learned throughout this process, that statement couldn’t be any further from the truth.
However, that statement did hold true with AshleyMadison.com. The popularity of the site wasn’t the only reason we are giving them a positive review – although it sure helps that there are so many women signed up for it. But there were many other things we thought highly of with AshleyMadison.com.
Why didn’t AshleyMadison.com rank #1 if it’s such a great site? Simple – there were 2 married dating sites that were actually slightly better. But don’t let the #3 ranking fool you. There are hundreds of married dating sites out there. And we reviewed the 15 most popular ones. Finishing 3rd out of all those websites is pretty darn impressive.
AshleyMadison.com Test Results: Our Results Using AshleyMadison.com For 3 Months
- 14 dates confirmed
- 76% first email response rate from women
- 19 different women initiating contact with us
AshleyMadison.com was the site we started with. So this is the site we used to determine how the review process would go and for how long we would review each site. After 3 months on AshleyMadison.com, we decided it was a long enough period to write an accurate review.
If this is the first review of ours you have read, we would have been satisfied with 50% of the women we contacted responding. Anything less than 50% makes it difficult to get laid. So, as you may have guessed, we were ecstatic with the 71% response rate we ended up with on AshleyMadison.com. Of course, just getting women to respond to your emails doesn’t guarantee you will get laid. Which is why we didn’t stop there…
You will not end up having sex with most women you send an email to out of the blue. Actually, only a small percentage of women that respond to your email will end up in your bed someday. That’s why it’s so important to contact as many women as possible. That’s what we did on AshleyMadison.com and it led to a total of 10 dates scheduled in just 3 months – all with very attractive women (6’s, 7’s, 8’s, and 1 was a 9).
AshleyMadison.com Strategy: Tactics That ***KILLED*** On AshleyMadison
You should not sign-up for AshleyMadison.com until you’re prepared to compete for women. So get those competitive juices flowing! There are a lot of men on this site and a lot of attractive women. A site with so many men and so many attractive women will make it impossible for men to get laid unless they are willing to compete and put forth some effort.
Here’s what we did. We were overly persistent with the women we contacted. We didn’t send them a message and never follow-up. We always sent one follow-up message to every woman that hadn’t responded to us within 48 hours. Women often get bombarded with emails on this site so no matter how amazing you and your email message is, it’s possible it will get lost among hundreds of other messages. So make sure you follow-up. Also, respond to any messages sent to you right away. Be the first to chat with her before other men beat you to it.
What We Would Do Differently If We Joined AshleyMadison.com Today
Like we mentioned earlier, this was our starting point. So chances are we would’ve had a bit more success if we joined AshleyMadison.com today. What would we have done differently? Probably spent more time on the site. It’s a competitive married dating site. That shouldn’t be a surprise considering how popular AshleyMadison.com is. Other things we probably would have done differently were…
- Be even more persistent. We only sent one follow-up email. Next time we will send a second one a couple of days later.
- Be less picky. We were more picky with the women on AshleyMadison.com than anywhere else. Because of that it was almost like we were too good for women that are just “cute”.
- Be more honest with the women we chatted with. To be perfectly honest with you, we weren’t perfectly honest with many of these women about who we were and what we were looking for. But, again, it was our first attempt at a married dating site. We were cocky bastards!
AshleyMadison.com Isn’t Perfect …
AshleyMadison.com definitely is not perfect, but it’s still one of the best married dating sites. The one thing that we disliked about this website was the amount of men on there. It just makes it harder to get women. But if you’re willing to work for it, you will get laid on AshleyMadison.com.
AshleyMadison.com Married Dating Review: Who Should Use AshleyMadison.com
We’ve already answered this partially – AshleyMadison.com is for men that want to bang attractive women but are willing to compete for them. You won’t be the only guy after her if she’s even mildly attractive. But you CAN get her, regardless of your looks. You just have to be persistent and show her why you’re an exciting guy, unlike the other dudes on there. Because of the competitive nature of AshleyMadison.com, we suggest ALSO using EroticAffairs.com and/or AffairsClub.com.